Everyone is out here searching for their purpose.

Their mission. Their calling. What they’re meant to do.

And the whole industry around that (the coaches, the courses, the retreats, the journaling prompts) is built on one assumption: that you’re ready for that question.

You’re probably not. And neither was I.

Because purpose is about doing. What am I supposed to do here? What have I incarnated in this lifetime?

And you cannot figure out what you’re here to do until you know who you actually are.

That’s meaning. And it comes first.

Who am I? What is this all about? How do I actually want to play this game called life?

Most people skip that part. It’s uncomfortable. It requires...work, it requires sitting with yourself and opening some boxes you’ve kept shut for a very good reason. There’s stuff in there. Old stuff. Heavy stuff. Ugly stuff. The kind of stuff that’s easier to leave alone while you stay busy looking for your mission.

So instead they go looking for purpose ( or the plan, the niche, the five year vision) and wonder why it never quite fits.

Why they keep pivoting. Why they feel empty even when things look good from the outside.

It doesn’t fit because it’s built on a foundation that it has not been laid yet.

And nobody tells you this. The purpose industry doesn’t tell you this because meaning is slow, it’s internal, and you can’t really package it into a course called Find Your Purpose in 30 Days.

But you can do the work. Real work. The kind that actually moves something inside you rather than just filling another notebook with someone else’s framework.

That’s what I’ve been doing. And that’s what I want to start talking about more - here, and on my Substack, where I go deeper.

Because I’m also putting together something more structured for people who are ready to actually sit with these questions rather than just consume content about them. A workshop. Hands on.

If that’s you - Come and find me there.

Eva :)

I’ve just uploaded a new YouTube conversation with astrologer Danny Darko, and the link is below.

But before you panic: this is not an astrology talk in the usual sense.

It’s not a video about predictions, jargon, or finding your soulmate 🙄.

It’s really a conversation about whether astrology can help when life feels off. When you feel disconnected, aimless, out of sync, or like something in you knows there must be more than this.

And yes, it is very much for skeptics too.

I’ve had this happen a few times: I look at a skeptical friend’s chart, tell them a few things, and they go, “Wow. That’s accurate.”

And then?

Nothing.

They carry on with the same life, the same habits, the same problem that made them ask in the first place.

Which, honestly, is very human.

We don’t want change because change is scary. Period.

This has been discussed since forever, how we are conditioned and programmed exactly in the same way a computer is, and we prefer to stay in the program WE KNOW even if it is crap.

Anyways, point being, it is okay if you don’t give a shit about certain things, it is okay if you prefer to live the life you’re living and do the same things. Whatever. It’s your own life.

We all have a different worldviews and different circumstances BUT (this is one of my big fat huge buts) one thing you HAVE TO AGREE WITH ME HERE is:

As a global community we have not done a great job so far with relating to each other. Sure we have built amazing stuff and even rockets but you know that is not what I am talking about.

I talk about love and peace. We are starving for it.

All we see is hate and war.

So, yes, if you don’t agree with me… get outta here!🙈

I am here to do whatever is in my tiny hands to help change that. I won’t build a rocket to go to the moon (as if! 🤭) but I can strive to live a little better every day and inspire others to do the same.

That is part of why I care about conversations like this.

I’m not here because astrology is the answer to everything. It isn’t.
But I do think it can be one useful tool for self-awareness, and self-awareness matters if we want to live better, relate better, and maybe contribute a little less madness to the world.

You probably know by now that I do not have a neat little niche.

I’m not here to help stressed mums, wannabe YouTubers, or singles in despair.

I’m here for human beings.

Which, according to every marketing expert on Earth, is apparently a terrible idea.

So yes. Once again, I remain professionally weird.

Back to Danny.

This conversation is about astrology as a tool for self-awareness: one possible way of understanding our patterns, our timing, our relationships, and the strange moments in life when old certainties collapse and we are forced to become more conscious, more responsible, and more ourselves.

So whether you love astrology, roll your eyes at it, or are simply curious, I think you may find something interesting here.

Watch the conversation here:

With love,
Eva:)

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