Coming out of the closet...
Revolution, Sex drive and A Nugget
Listen and read along:
I am so pissed off…honestly. But it is only going to last for a couple of paragraphs, not to worry, I’ll light you up by the end of the letter.
I am not a party pooper 😂
I was designing this new logo for the rebranding of my letter (the why is further down) with a software I use and wanted to try and generate and AI image 🙄
So I typed: “Chakra color petals with an erotica touch”.
I ain’t got a clue what that would look like but, since AI is so fucking cool (notice the sarcasm here) I expected something awesome… well, I did not get anything but this warning:
“Something you typed may result in content that doesn’t meet our policies”😳
Honestly, why on the fuckin’ mother Earth in this sick society we cannot openly talk about sexuality or getting even close to it!!??
For God’s Almighty sake!!!
I typed ‘erotica’ and not ‘rape’ (which I would totally and fully agree).
Sex was sacred in Ancient times, it is our essence, it is in our nature, it is totally part of humankind…we would NOT BE FUCKING HERE IF IT WASN’T FOR SEX!!!!!!
Yes, I am yelling my lungs out here but it is OK…calm down Rose, calm down sweety… take a breath…another…another…
Revolution.We.Need.
And I am not meaning violence or anything nasty against anyone.
What google throws at you as the meaning of revolution is a term related to Government changes “usually in a violent manner”.
No, my friend, I mean revolution as CHANGE.
A radical change in the established order.
And this is not only in the relationship with sexuality (if only was that!) it is in relationship with pretty much everything in our lives.
Quick Quiz Question for you:
The third option follows with a 🙄 but won’t let me add it.
Rebranding
You’ll have noticed I have changed the name of this letter to Midlife Erotica.
The Mindful50 came up a couple of years ago when I was going through a profound life shift (and basically going crazy).
I so much needed mindfulness, as in the opposite of Mind being Full, if you know what I mean. So it seemed appropriate.
However, now I am starting to feel much comfortable with who I am and I am finding joy on reviewing sex toys and openly (within the blurry limits) talking about sexuality.
It’s sort of feels like “coming out of the closet” for me. And I like it!😃
I, for some reason, get a lot of info on my socials feed about midlife, perimenopause and all that stuff and I am still to see a woman over 40 talk about how amazing their sexual life is!
Most are on HTR (Hormone Replacement Therapy) and complain about low libido, poor sleep, anxiety and a long list of other stuff.
And I can confirm all of this as well in my interaction with men married to these age range women.
Basically, most women seem to be suffering with symptoms that I don’t have at 50!
What’s going on here?🤔
Sex Drive
Why are people assuming that the older you get, the lower your sex drive?
What does age have to do with sex?
Probably is more related to being in a long-term unhappy relationship which simply sustains by inertia and comfortability.
Or maybe is related to not feeling energy or motivation, being too tired, too stressed, too anxious, too busy, too ill, too fat, too thin, too not bothered, too distracted…
Why is it? Why? Why?
No, I am not bragging. I have been there too. In a long-term relationship where you become roommates rather than lovers.
But I fixed it. I left.
And what happens now, is that after creating a life free from stress and connecting to my soul I am not feeling that lack of libido.
I enjoy sex as much as when I was in my 20s!
The problem is it is not easy to find a partner in crime so to speak 😆
That’s when sex toys and gadgets come in hand and this has been a true discovery for me that has come up out of the blue.
Check my Male Masturbator review here if you fancy.
And I’ll be doing a gorgeous licker next. This one will come with personal experience, of course 🤪.
If you want to read more, here’s an… Erotica Nugget 👇🏻
