Men Need to Be Heard
But Not Like This
I recently stumbled upon a video from a channel called “Men Need to Be Heard.” (I won’t link it 🥴).
The title? I agree with it completely.
Men do need to be heard (and women, and whales, and birds…but whatever).
But when I was half way through the video, I was like 😳. The way that man was speaking and how that pain was being shaped and where it was being aimed… left me speechless.
Because here’s what I’ve come to understand: the moment your pain requires an enemy, your integrity collapses.
You’re no longer seeking truth. You’re seeking relief through blame.
And that doesn’t heal anyone. It multiplies the wound.
I recorded a response to this (video below) - not to attack anyone, but because I believe we’re at a crossroads. We can either keep feeding the division between men and women, or we can choose to see what’s really happening beneath the surface.
The future doesn’t belong to men who rage at women, or women who rage at men.
It belongs to those willing to outgrow the war entirely.
That’s not weakness. That’s evolution.
And whether anyone likes it or not - that’s the truth.
With clarity,
Rose 🌹
P.S. — If this resonates, share it. Not to “win” an argument, but because someone in your life might need to hear this right now.
So many men refuse to work on themselves. They refuse to better themselves. Those same men want to babied and have their hands held through things. They need to seek therapy but many rely on women in their lives to be pseudo therapists and push that emotional labor on them. No. Men need to go real therapy and work through their own shit
Totally agree. It' s gunny how something simply said makes us think. I had that with someone mentioning how we dont learn how to respect men. It took me a minute. But it's true. Society is focused on the 2 sides feminism. One, allow women to hve access to vote and being heard. 2 men are the devil. Haha. But we forgot what men want. It's almost illegal just ask that question