So many men refuse to work on themselves. They refuse to better themselves. Those same men want to babied and have their hands held through things. They need to seek therapy but many rely on women in their lives to be pseudo therapists and push that emotional labor on them. No. Men need to go real therapy and work through their own shit
Totally agree. It' s gunny how something simply said makes us think. I had that with someone mentioning how we dont learn how to respect men. It took me a minute. But it's true. Society is focused on the 2 sides feminism. One, allow women to hve access to vote and being heard. 2 men are the devil. Haha. But we forgot what men want. It's almost illegal just ask that question
I agree that pain framed as blame doesn’t lead to healing. At the same time, I think many men struggle not because they want an enemy, but because they don’t have language or space to articulate their pain without being dismissed or moralized. Being heard isn’t about winning a gender war, it’s about creating room for honest expression before it calcifies into resentment. We can hold men accountable and still take their pain seriously. Both feel necessary if we actually want things to change.
So many men refuse to work on themselves. They refuse to better themselves. Those same men want to babied and have their hands held through things. They need to seek therapy but many rely on women in their lives to be pseudo therapists and push that emotional labor on them. No. Men need to go real therapy and work through their own shit
Totally agree. It' s gunny how something simply said makes us think. I had that with someone mentioning how we dont learn how to respect men. It took me a minute. But it's true. Society is focused on the 2 sides feminism. One, allow women to hve access to vote and being heard. 2 men are the devil. Haha. But we forgot what men want. It's almost illegal just ask that question
Hey, ur doing great! Lookin' great too.
I agree that pain framed as blame doesn’t lead to healing. At the same time, I think many men struggle not because they want an enemy, but because they don’t have language or space to articulate their pain without being dismissed or moralized. Being heard isn’t about winning a gender war, it’s about creating room for honest expression before it calcifies into resentment. We can hold men accountable and still take their pain seriously. Both feel necessary if we actually want things to change.
That's the problem of men. Go to therapy.
Therapy can help. But people don’t seek help when they feel dismissed. Being heard is often the first step, not the last.