Midlife Erotica

Midlife Erotica

4th of July and the Myth of Freedom
A slightly inconvenient reflection on independence
Jul 4 • It's Eva, actually

June 2026

Behind the Fantasy
Why I’m not leaving the adult part of my life behind just to make the story cleaner
Jun 28 • It's Eva, actually
I was a parasite at 22
The most embarrassing thing I learned about falling in love
Jun 22 • It's Eva, actually
When Did You Stop French-kissing?
(If you still do, please tell me, you absolute legend)
Jun 13 • It's Eva, actually

May 2026

How I consistently make Fuck-All on Substack
I Bet This One Won’t Go Viral
May 28 • It's Eva, actually
The Day I Quartered a Body With My Ex-Husband
A very normal story about my midlife reinvention.
May 24 • It's Eva, actually
My Dad is dying
And I am giving birth to Conscious Desire
May 20 • It's Eva, actually
Why I talk about Sexless Marriage so Much
Nobody talks about this honestly.
May 15 • It's Eva, actually
7:43
Why I talk about sexless marriage so much
(maybe because no one else does?)
May 13 • It's Eva, actually
When "Fine" isn't Fine Anymore
something is asking to change
May 11 • It's Eva, actually
Meaning before purpose
Are you ready for that question?
May 10 • It's Eva, actually
2:28
My first time in America
A buffalo, a rant and a deathbed question
May 5 • It's Eva, actually
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